It was Ursula Le Guin who said, “There are no right answers to wrong questions.” And believe me that in my more than ten years of experience as a tarot reader, I have heard all the right and wrong love questions you can imagine!
And like Ursula, I also think that there are good and bad questions to ask Tarot cards about love.
The good news is that you no longer have to waste your time asking the wrong questions! Based on my experience with thousands of clients, I have compiled 33 exciting questions to ask tarot cards about love.
Asking these questions will ensure you get the best and most accurate answers. And these questions cover all the stages of a relationship: from when you are single until you are in a relationship and – God forbid it – to if you have to go through a breakup, and how to get your ex back.
Depending on what stage your relationship is in, use the Table of Contents to find the best questions to ask.
4 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards About Love When You Are Single (and 3 questions you should not ask)
Best Question: Am I ready to find my true love?
This is a fundamental tarot card question; all singles should start any Tarot reading with this one.
This question will serve as a guide to guide the rest of the Tarot session. If you are ready to find love, the next step will be to know what to do to find it. And if you are not, it is imperative to find out what it is that is blocking you and preventing you from finding love.
If the answer is YES
If the answer is yes, congratulations!
What should you ask next? There are three bad questions you can ask, and just a good one.
The three worst love questions to ask Tarot are:
- What does my true love look like? (to try to recognize it)
- Where am I will find my true love?
- When will I find my true love?
And there are very good reasons why you should NOT ask these questions! Next, I explain why it is better that you do not know these things.
The short explanation is that all those love questions for Tarot lead you to become obsessed with trying to find the person on every corner, at every party, and most of the time in all the wrong places!
In case this was not clear, let me give you an example. When you get to know about some of your true love characteristics, place, or time when you two will meet, you often end up getting obsessed.
Let’s say someone tells you that your true love is a veterinarian with black hair and green eyes and that you will meet him at a party.
What happens next is that:
- You start asking all the people with black hair and green eyes if they are veterinarians.
- You get obsessed with vets in general.
- You get a pet just to take it to the vet (and increase your chances of meeting your true love.)
- You want to go to every party.
- You want to date every veterinarian.
- You want to organize parties for vets!
Then, if after a while you don’t find your green-eyed, black-haired vet, you start to doubt the Tarot reading.
And you start asking yourself:
Would it be a vet? Wouldn’t it be a doctor? Because my doctor has green eyes and black hair… Or maybe the hair was not black but blonde? Because the vet in the corner has green eyes but blonde hair. Perhaps it’s him!
And this is not the worst!
The worst part is that when you find your green-eyed, black-haired vet. You have “inside information” that the vet doesn’t. So while you are getting to know each other, at some point you start pushing and forcing things with the vet because you know he is your true love, but he doesn’t yet!
You can even scare or drive the love of your life away and lose him, trying to speed up a relationship that could have naturally blossomed if you hadn’t known he was the love of your life.
If, after reading the last three questions, you feel a little disappointed, don’t worry. There is a question much better than those three. And it will also help you proactively do something to find your true love without obsessing or getting tangled up with free will.
This is the best question to ask when you are ready to find your true love:
Best Question: What is the best thing I can do right now to find my true love?
What you will receive here is advice and guidance from Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / Spirit Guides / Angels / Ascended Masters to help you find your true love. It is, without a doubt, the best information you can get!
Now, what if the answer you received is negative?
If the answer is NO
Before asking if you are ready to find your true love, you must prepare yourself, mentally and emotionally, to know the answer.
In all my years as a tarot reader, I have seen many people who do not prepare and receive the answers very badly, creating a negative experience for themselves and the Tarot reader.
Before consulting the Tarot, open yourself to the information that the Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / spirit guides / angels / ascended masters want to give you, and remember that everything is for your greater good.
If the answer you received is that you are not ready to find true love, it does not mean that you do not deserve love. It means that you are not prepared to be in a relationship.
Most of the time, the cause is an emotional, mental, or energy blockage caused by some traumatic situation in your home while growing up or with a previous relationship as an adult.
The good news is that the Tarot can help you find these blocks and guide you to find solutions.
The best questions you can ask for this are:
What is preventing me from finding true love?
The answer to this question can be shocking and open your eyes to situations or traumas that you have stored in your unconscious mind.
Or it may be something that has been bothering you for a while now (like a difficult divorce that left you some scars, or an ex that you don’t quite let go of), that you already know you have to work with.
What can I do to remove the blocks that are preventing me from finding true love?
This question is key. Once you identify the blocks that prevent you from finding true love, the next step is to get guidance from the Divine / Higher Self / Universe / spirit guides / angels / ascended masters to unlock, heal and open yourself to love.
3 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards About Love When You Start Dating Someone
When you start dating someone, it is one of the most exciting moments in the relationship! The butterflies in your stomach, the anticipation before a date, the thrill of getting to know someone new… Unless you’ve been in the dating scene for a long time.
When you’ve been single for several months (or years), and you want to cut the chase and take a shortcut, ask these tarot card questions.
These questions are excellent, if and only if you trust the answer. Because when we like someone, we do not want to read in the Tarot cards that that person is not our true love.
So if you are ready to know the truth, ask:
Best Question: Is X (the name of the person you are dating) my true love?
Here you have the possibility that the answer is YES or NO.
If the answer is YES
If the answer is yes, congratulations! To learn more about this relationship, ask the questions in the next section.
If the answer is NO
If you like the person, but the answer is “no,” I am sorry for you. Sometimes it is better to have a disappointment early on than waste a lot of time and end up being disappointed anyway!
To better accept this situation and let go of a person who is not for you, it may help you know why this person is not right for you.
So if you think knowing this will help you let go, you can ask:
- Why isn’t s/he my true love?
- What can I do to forget and let him/her go?
The answer you get to this question will depend on the Tarot reading you use to get an answer. With a three-card spread, you will receive a short and concise answer. With the Celtic cross spread, you will get a more elaborate explanation.
6 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards For Taking Your Relationship To The Next Level
Every relationship goes through, more or less, these different stages:
- Casual dating
- Serious dating
- Formal dating
These stages are not linear, and they do not have to follow this order. Some of these stages can last for days, and others can last for months or years. Sometimes we can even go back and forth repeatedly between the two of them.
The question is, how do we get from one level to the next? To find out, you need to ask the right Tarot card questions
These are some of the best Tarot card questions to ask about relationships:
- Where is this relationship going?
- Is our relationship ready to go to the next level?
- When will our relationship go to the next level?
- What can I do to improve the relationship?
- What can I do to take the relationship where I want it to be?
- What can I do to take the relationship to the next level?
9 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards For Helping You Solve Relationship Problems
The path of a relationship is rarely smooth and unobstructed. More than a walk in the park, it is more like climbing a mountain. And just as climbing a mountain is fraught with challenges, relationships (though not all) usually are too.
Because at the end of the day, it’s about reconciling and negotiating an agreement for sharing life between two people with entirely different pasts, backgrounds, likes, dislikes, wishes, and goals in life.
So when problems arise, asking these Tarot questions about love will help you, if not to solve them completely, at least to understand what is happening and what you can do about it.
- What is the real basis of our problem?
- How does my partner feel in this situation?
- Where is our relationship going in this situation?
- What does my partner intend to do in this situation?
- What can we both do to improve this situation?
- What can I do to improve this situation?
- What can my partner do to improve this situation?
- Is my partner willing to do what is necessary to improve the situation?
- How are we going to solve this situation?
11 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards For Getting Back With Your Ex
Unfortunately, sometimes the problems and differences with our partner have no solution, and the relationship ends. But when there are deep feelings, it isn’t easy to turn the page and let the other person go.
Most people want to know if the breakup is really a definitive ending, or is it merely an impasse, a temporary situation with a solution in the future.
Before you desperately start asking when your ex is coming back, or what you can do to get him back, there is a much more important question you have to ask.
In all my years of experience, the first question you have to ask (and that very few people ask) is whether it is right for you to get back together with your ex or not.
I’ve seen too many times people asking about how to get their partner back when in reality, Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / spirit guides / angels / ascended masters DO NOT WANT them to get back.
Not out of evil or on a whim, but simply because THEY ARE NOT MEANT TO BE TOGETHER anymore. This is one of the most difficult pills to swallow for most.
The saddest thing is that they waste months and years, suffering and making others suffer, trying to get back a relationship whose time had already come.
The good news is that you can avoid all this suffering and the waste of time by asking a simple question:
Best Question: Is it in the best interest of everyone involved that my ex and I get back together?
As you can see, the question does not answer if it is the best for you or the best for him or her, but “for everyone involved.” This is very important, especially if there are children involved. Sometimes we do not realize the damage that the comings and goings of the relationship do to children.
If the answer is YES
If the answer is yes, it means you have a green light from Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / spirit guides / angels / ascended masters to try and get your ex back.
Follow-up Tarot card questions that you may be interested in getting an answer are:
- Does my ex want to get back with me?
- How does my ex feel about me?
- Is there anything I can do to get back with my ex?
- What can I do to get my ex back?
- Will my ex get back to me in the next three months? Six months? Nine months? A year?
A little warning
Notice that I said that “you have the green light to try” in the previous section. The answer to the question is not whether you will get back together or not, but whether being together is the best for everyone.
Because you wanting to get back with your ex doesn’t mean that your ex wants to get back with you. And regardless of the influence that the Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / spiritual guides / angels / ascended masters may exert if there is something that is always respected, it is the free will of each one.
Then even if you may want to get back with your ex, and the Divinity / Higher Self / Universe / spirit guides / angels / ascended masters may give you their support to try, but still, your ex may not want to get back with you, you will have to respect his decision.
If the answer is NO
If the answer is that getting back with your ex is not in the best interest of everyone involved, I am very sorry for you.
I know that if you are asking these Tarot questions, you probably hoped to get back with your ex. And having been through this situation myself, I know how painful it can be to receive the news that it’s better to continue in separate ways.
But the Tarot remains your ally, even in the darkest hours. It is a light on your path that will help you get out of this situation to a better place. You just have to keep asking.
And some of the questions to ask Tarot if the answer is NO are:
- Why isn’t getting back with my ex in the best interest of everyone involved?
- What is the best thing I can do to let my ex go?
- What can I do to cut my energy ties with my ex?
- What can I do to forget my ex?
- What can I do to move on with my life?
After a while, when you’ve gotten over your ex and feel like you’re ready to open up to a new relationship, all you have to do is go back to the beginning of this post and ask: Am I ready to find my true love?
As you can see, by using these questions to ask Tarot cards about love, you will be well-guided and advised in all stages of love!